Savvy Senior: What types of funeral benefits are available to veterans?
Dear Savvy Senior: What types of funeral benefits are available to veterans? My 83-year-old father, who has Alzheimer’s disease, served during the Vietnam War. — Planning Ahead
Dear Planning Ahead: The Department of Veterans Affairs’ National Cemetery Administration offers a variety of underutilized burial benefits to veterans as well as their spouses and dependents.
Most U.S. veterans who didn’t receive a dishonorable discharge are eligible for burial benefits. To verify your dad’s discharge, you’ll need a copy of his DD Form 214 (certificate of release or discharge from active duty). If you don’t have it, you can request it at Archives.gov/veterans.
Here’s a rundown of benefits that are available to veterans.
Military cemetery benefits
If your dad is eligible and would like to be buried in one of the 155 national or 119 state, territory or tribal cemeteries (see VA.gov/find-locations), the VA provides a number of benefits at no cost to the family, including: a gravesite; opening and closing of the grave and perpetual gravesite care; a government headstone or marker; a U.S. burial flag that can be used to drape the casket or accompany the urn; and a presidential memorial certificate.
If your dad is cremated, his remains will be buried or inurned in the same manner as casketed remains.
Be aware that funeral or cremation arrangements and costs are not taken care of by the VA, however. They are the responsibility of the veteran’s family, but some veteran’s survivors may be eligible for burial allowances.
The VA also offers a memorial web page called the Veterans Legacy Memorial for any veteran buried in a national, state, territorial or tribal cemetery. This allows families to post pictures and stories of their loved one online as a way to remember and honor their service.
If you’re interested in this option, the VA has a pre-need burial eligibility determination program to help you plan ahead before your dad dies. See VA.gov/burials-memorials/pre-need-eligibility or call the National Cemetery Scheduling Office at 800-535-1117.
Private cemetery benefits
The VA also provides benefits to veterans buried in private cemeteries. If your dad chooses this option, the VA benefits include a free government headstone or grave marker, or a medallion that can be affixed to an existing privately purchased headstone or marker; a burial flag; and a presidential memorial certificate.
Funeral or cremation arrangements and costs are again the responsibility of the family, and there are no benefits offered to spouses and dependents who are buried in private cemeteries.
Military funeral honors
Another popular benefit available to all eligible veterans is a military funeral honors ceremony. This includes an honor guard detail of at least two uniformed military persons, folding and presenting the U.S. burial flag to the veteran’s survivors, and the playing of taps.
The funeral provider you choose will be able to assist you with all VA burial requests.
For a complete rundown of burial and memorial benefits, eligibility details and required forms visit Cem.va.gov.
Burial allowances
Some veteran’s survivors may also qualify for a $948 burial allowance and $948 for a plot if buried in a private cemetery. Plus, $231 for a headstone or grave marker allowance. To find out if your dad is eligible or to apply, see VA.gov.
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